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[Back to Paul's Platform main selection page] December 2004 "Busy-ness
vs. Simplicity"
"To each his own" was a phrase my mom often used regarding a habit, taste, or idiosyncratic quirk of someone that differed from her own traits. I always thought that to be a good attitude, giving others the benefit of the doubt rather than pre-judging any given preference. For instance, an avid reader of novels and a movie buff could be at odds, but also have the choice to respect the other's penchant as a personal preference rather than an inherent evil or virtue. The same comparison could be applied to the issue of busy-ness vs. a simpler schedule. Too often I hear or overhear someone summarizing their current schedule as "Oh, keepin' busy," as if that were inherently virtuous. On the other hand, some folks avoid commitments in order to preserve more "me time," shirking the opportunity to make a difference in someone's life. My personality struggles against overcommitment, and I often have to make a conscious choice to avoid cluttering my schedule overmuch, even for noble activities such as time with extended family, church and the Jugheads. (I often over-compensate for my perception that I have a simple schedule.) Other personalities struggle with undercommitment, having to go out of their way to sacrifice an evening or weekend afternoon for a person or a cause outside their normal routine. In this busy season, whether approached from a secular or sacred perspective, it may be the better part of wisdom (and virtue) to hold back a bit. "Less is more," or so said one of my early career mentors. Even in the
midst of "busy" holiday parties, Christmas programs, family
gatherings, and last-minute shopping, don't lose the forest for the trees.
Enjoy faith, family, friends and fun which should be the hallmarks of
this month. Celebrate life!
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